n2s: add visuals, make more readable
It seems like it should be so obvious: if I know that people have have half-genders and move between genders, why not have multiple at once? Alas, it took a bit for me to remember that that is, indeed, a possibility.
A comic that's my favourite explanation of being bigender
There's lots of controversity over the flag(s)... I don't use any one is particular, really... I am very private about this with IRL people anyways.
[note: this section needs an update] The thing is, I don't think I particularly have an internal gender indentity. But I DO have a gender, and despite how many other genderqueer/trans people work, it is more made up of how I want to express myself than how I feel. For this reason, when I get down to labeling it, I often shrink at what my TWO genders are... I say "girlflux (slightly more) and boy/man" but is there something missing inbetween there? Does that accurately describe the sludge?
It doesn't really matter though. I say I'm a bigender boygirl/girlboy despite the lack of publicity or cool flag, because I *like* it.
I use a few different neologism to describe my gender modality (meaning how one relates to one's AGAB), including isogender, absgender, cistrans/transcis, meldgender/integregender. In words, I describe myself as being inbetween cis- and transgender.